We congratulate one another on mother's day. No doubt mother is the best person in one's life and deserves all the appreciation.
But from the human life's goal & purpose of life point of view, the aim is to not to take birth in a new mother's womb after death i.e., to transcend the birth death cycle.
This is advocated by all the spiritual holy books, Bhagavad Gita, Srimad Bhagavatam, all Vedas and all religions of the world i.e., to love God and get back to His eternal abode for eternal bless because this material world, if we take birth again in a mother's womb is dukhalayam ashashwat i.e., a place of only misries
God does not want us to come back to this world but we, due to our own fre will, do want to come back to this world and hence God fulfills our own desire to take the new mother's womb each time, be it in any of 84 lakh yonis i.e., we ourselves do not want to transcend the miseries of the material world.
Basically it all depends on our own desire whether we want to go back to Godhead
or
we want to remain in this material world and get a mother's womb, God being so kind fulfills all desires of ours.
A mother's womb is compared to hell because the new soul is encaged, lying in inverted position, for 9 long months, surrounded by all faecal and urine matter, cannot move freely, has to constantly bear all the pin prick/ tortures /pain on all limbs of the body by whatever spicy & chilly food the mother eats etc.
"The foetus is disgusted by repeated entry into the mother’s womb and prays to the Lord not to send it to the world, where it will have to face misery that is far greater than the misery in the womb. It has a clear perception of the past birth and wants to avoid fresh actions that become the basis of future births."
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thehindu.com/society/faith/plight-of-the-soul/article24658692.ece/amp/
https://sacred-texts.com/hin/gpu/gpu08.htm
श्री कृष्ण को दिया पहला “वचन” क्या आपको याद है ?
Do you remember your first “promise” given to Shri Krishna?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkrsV8kXNaw&list=RDCMUCpLIBc_rf82ZgqhQbk2-SIw&index=8
*It is the duty of the father and mother to see that "My son, this is the last attempt of coming into this material world." Na mocayed yaḥ samupeta-mṛtyum. It is the duty of the father and the mother to stop the repetition of birth and death of his son*.
*The mother should consider that "My son came to my womb, and he has suffered so much while he was remaining within the womb. Now I shall teach my son in such a way that no more he is going in the womb of a material mother." That is the duty of father, that is the duty of mother, that is the duty of friend, that is the duty of guru*.
https://vedabase.io/en/library/transcripts/711120le-delhi/?query=mother+womb+hell#bb491969
*Now for a person who is in Kṛṣṇa consciousness, he is not concerned with aristocratic family or abominable family. He wants to stop birth. So suppose one gets birth in aristocratic family or very nice family, what is the gain there*?
*You have to live ten months within the womb of your mother in suffocated condition, either you take your birth in aristocratic family or in abominable family, either in human mother's womb or animal mother's womb. That does not make any difference*.
https://vedabase.io/en/library/transcripts/681211bg-los-angeles/?query=mother+womb+hell#bb533442
A fortunate child in the womb of his mother prayed to Kṛṣṇa as follows: “O enemy of Kaṁsa, I am suffering so much because of this material body. Now I am trapped within a mess of blood, urine and liquid stool within the womb of my mother. Because I am living in such a condition, I am suffering great pangs. Therefore, O divine ocean of mercy, please be kind to me. I have no ability to engage in Your loving devotional service, but please save me!”
There is a similar statement by a person fallen in a hellish condition of life. He addressed the Supreme Lord thus: “My dear Lord, Yamarāja has placed me in a situation that is full of filthy and obnoxious smells. There are so many insects and worms, surrounded by the stools left by different kinds of diseased persons.
And after seeing this horrible scene, my eyes have become sore and I am becoming nearly blind. I therefore pray, O my Lord, O deliverer from the hellish conditions of life. I have fallen into this hell, but I shall try to remember Your holy name always, and in this way I shall try to keep my body and soul together.” This is another instance of ecstatic love for Kṛṣṇa in an abominable situation.
https://vedabase.io/en/library/nod/48/?query=+hell++womb#bb1208285
