The Power of Good Company – A Life-Changing Diwali Lesson from Lord Hanuman | Swami Mukundananda
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Swami Mukundananda, discusses the profound influence of the company we keep (Satsang) using the example of Hanuman and Vibhishan.
[00:00] The company we keep has a tremendous impact upon us. If you stay in the association of those who lust after wealth, you will also make money the primary goal of your life.
[00:12] If your friends are virtuous and people of integrity, in their association, you will develop a noble and virtuous character.
[00:24] If your friends consider health as the chief priority, you too will develop habits of well-being and grow in health.
[00:38] When Hanuman took on a giant form and leapt over the ocean to reach Lanka, it was late evening when he came.
[00:51] Touring around, Hanuman came to the house of Vibhishan. He saw on the door an emblem of Bhagwan Ram's bow, the Sharang, and some Tulsi plants were growing in the courtyard.
[01:13] Hanuman thought, "In this city, who is this saintly person? I must find out."
[01:35] Your heart can be compared to a crystal. The crystal takes on the hue and the shade of the environment it is placed in. Likewise, you too get affected by your association.
[01:45] Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said, "You are the average of your five closest friends." So we must be careful in choosing our company.
[02:12] Let's learn from the example of Vibhishan. When Hanuman took on a giant form and leapt over the ocean to reach Lanka, it was late evening when he came.
[02:22] He decided to wait until it was dark before proceeding further. He now became a little monkey.
[02:32] And after the blanket of night had descended, he went towards the gate. A demoness called Lankini was standing guard.
[02:45] She noticed him and screamed, "A thief! Where are you going?" Hanuman thought in his mind, "The biggest thief is inside, Ravan, who has kidnapped the mother of the universe, Sita, and she's blaming me for being a thief."
[03:07] He boxed her, and it was a knockout in one blow. However, Lankini folded her hands and started offering her respect.
[03:19] She said, "I had become fed up of guarding the city of demons. At that time, Brahma said to me that when a monkey comes and knocks you with a blow, know that the days of Lanka are numbered."
[03:41] "I offer my respects to Ramadas Hanuman. Please proceed." Hanuman entered the city.
[03:54] It was late in the night. The demons, after an evening of vice and entertainment, were now sleeping.
[04:06] Hanuman did an inspection. He even visited the palace of Ravan, where he found Ravan sleeping with his wife, Mandodari.
[04:19] Touring around, Hanuman came to the house of Vibhishan. He saw on the door an emblem of Bhagwan Ram's bow, the Sharang, and some Tulsi plants were growing in the courtyard.
[04:29] Hanuman thought, "In this city, who is this saintly person? I must find out."
[04:42] It was now about 3:00 a.m. in the morning, and at that very moment, Vibhishan got up. Right away, the name of Ram came out from his lips.
[04:51] He uttered Ram Ram, and he came out of the door. He saw Hanuman and said, "Who are you?"
[05:00] Hanuman then explained the background why he had come. Vibhishan was thrilled upon meeting a devotee of Ram.
[05:11] He explained how he had been worshiping Ram, but his regret was that Ram's grace had not descended upon him. He asked Hanuman the reason for it.
[05:23] Hanuman said, "You are taking Ram nam, but you are not doing Ram Kaj, the work of Ram."
[05:34] Vibhishan made a vow, then forth he would definitely stand up in support of Ram and Sita.
[05:46] Vibhishan then said to Hanuman that now I am certain Ram's kripa is upon me.
[06:10] "It's only by the Lord's grace that one meets a saint like you."
[06:21] Hanuman asked Vibhishan how he managed to stay in a city of demons. Vibhishan responded his position was like the tongue between 32 teeth. He felt completely suffocated.
[06:33] Hanuman said, "But the tongue is more powerful than the teeth." There was once an argument between the teeth and the tongue.
[06:45] The teeth warned the tongue, "You stay in the midst of all of us and have the impudence of coming and shaking any of us whenever you want. Be careful, or together we will chop you and throw you out."
[07:03] The tongue said, "Mr. teeth, you need to be careful. If I use my power and insult that big and strong bully of the locality, all 32 of you will get out."
[07:28] So Hanuman said to Vibhishan, "that we are brothers and I need your help."
[07:39] "Brothers?" said Vibhishan. "But you are saintly and I am born in a demoniac family."
[07:46] Hanuman explained that their father was Ram and mother was Sita.
[07:53] "The problem was," Hanuman said, "I have seen my father, but not yet met my mother. You have seen the mother, Sita, but have not yet met your father, Ram. Help me meet Sita, and I'll ensure you get to meet Ram."
[08:17] Vibhishan was thrilled. He told Hanuman, "She is being put in Ashok vatika by my brother Ravan. It is in that direction."
[08:29] Before Hanuman proceeded, Vibhishan praised the opportunity for getting that saintly association because the company we keep has a tremendous impact upon us.
[09:00] Hanuman proceeded from there, but the lesson for us is that this moment's association made such a big impact upon Vibhishan. So, our company influences us.
[09:16] If you stay in the association of those who lust after wealth, you will also make money the primary goal of your life.
[09:28] If your friends are virtuous and people of integrity, in their association, you will develop a noble and virtuous character.
[09:42] If your friends consider health as the chief priority, you too will develop habits of well-being and grow in health.
[09:56] One pet shop owner raised two parrots and sold one of them to a priest and its brother parrot to a butcher.
[10:09] After a year, the pet shop owner thought, "Let me see how the two parrots are doing." He went to the priest's house.
[10:21] The priest was outside when he arrived. But as he entered the home, he heard someone saying, "Welcome."
[10:46] The parrot said, "The owner is not at home, but please be comfortable." And as the pet shop owner sat on a chair, the parrot began reciting Vedic mantras in sweet tones and then even sang a kirtan.
[11:07] The pet shop owner was extremely impressed. From there, he proceeded to the butcher's house.
[11:19] The moment he entered, he heard screams, "Kill him! Don't leave him! Squeeze his throat!" The pet shop owner was astounded.
[11:32] He discovered the butcher was out. The parrot was screaming and then realized the impact of one year's association on the two parrots.
[11:45] So, if we wish our intellect to be filled with belief in God, and if we want our aspirations, ideals, and values to become noble and pious, we must then engage in Satsang.
[12:13] Over the last four decades as a spiritual teacher, I have personally witnessed the power of Satsang... in the space of one year, the entire direction of their life changes.
[13:25] In this way, if we begin the activity of Satsang, Vyas promises: from Satsang, you will automatically develop first Shraddha (faith), then Rati (interest in devotion), and finally Bhakti (devotion) will start growing in your heart.
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English Elaboration (The Power of Good Company)
The central theme of the video is the immense and transformative power of association or Satsang (good company/association with truth). The speaker, Swami Mukundananda, emphasizes that our closest relationships determine our character, goals, and even health [00:12].
The Story of Hanuman and Vibhishan
The speaker uses the Ramayana episode of Hanuman's first meeting with Vibhishan in Lanka to illustrate this point:
• Recognition of Virtue: After leaping to Lanka, Hanuman saw a saintly sign at one house—the emblem of Lord Ram’s bow and Tulsi plants [00:51]. This house belonged to Vibhishan (Ravana's brother), a righteous soul living in the city of demons.
• The Power of Prayer: Hanuman met Vibhishan at 3:00 a.m. Vibhishan was awake, uttering the name of Ram [04:42]. Vibhishan expressed his regret that despite his worship, he hadn't received Ram's grace.
• The Missing Element: Hanuman explained that Vibhishan was taking Ram Nam (name) but not doing Ram Kaj (Ram’s work) [05:23]. Vibhishan immediately vowed to stand in support of Ram and Sita, confirming that meeting a saint like Hanuman was a sign of the Lord’s grace [06:10].
• Brotherhood and Mission: Vibhishan felt suffocated, describing his life as the "tongue between 32 teeth" (demons) [06:21].
Hanuman countered with a story of the tongue and the teeth, arguing the tongue's greater power (it can get all the teeth removed). Hanuman declared their brotherhood, stating their shared mother was Sita and father was Ram [07:46]. He asked Vibhishan to help him meet Sita, promising in return that Vibhishan would meet Ram.
• The Lesson: Vibhishan's instantaneous transformation and support for Ram, catalyzed by a brief association with the saintly Hanuman, demonstrates the life-changing impact of good company [09:00].
The Parrot Analogy
The speaker drives the point home with the story of two parrots [09:56]:
1. One parrot was sold to a priest and learned to say, "Welcome," recite Vedic mantras, and sing kirtans [10:46].
2. The other parrot was sold to a butcher and only screamed commands like, "Kill him! Don't leave him! Squeeze his throat!" [11:19].
This stark contrast, caused by just one year of association, proves that our environment is the primary shaper of our conduct.
Conclusion: The Importance of Satsang
To cultivate noble ideals and belief in God, one must actively engage in Satsang [11:45].
This spiritual association is the path by which a person naturally develops Shraddha (faith), Rati (interest in devotion), and finally Bhakti (pure devotion) [13:25].